Where is your relationship now?
"I am just thinking of settling down"
"I am newlywed and wanting to lay a strong foundation"
"Our relationship is good and I want to keep it strong"
"I am married and struggling"
How can I support you?
"Thank you. I wish we would have found you years ago. Our sessions with you have been very helpful. We were stuck when we started. You have given us hope. Lots of work still to do but we can see a path forward"
– S & M
"Just wanted you to know things are going good Alhumdulilah. We still have had fights but the good thing is we r appreciating each other more, trying to be kinder and a huge thing is not fighting as long as we used too. I also don't text him rude msgs when I'm upset to make things worst. Well baby steps :) Alhumdulilah thank you. Allah swt bless you"
– A P
" We started off with two main problems: My spiralling into labelling my husband and misunderstanding his actions as personality traits that I hated and thought he could never change. You showed me that I need to stop this negative spiral and just see the moment as it is - So I've worked really hard on this and it's been super helpful. Your idea of building that bridge where we can express our worlds was also very helpful - though very difficult to do when we're each talking about something we're very passionate about and need the other person to be onboard with. But we're taking it one step at a time and accepting when we fail at it and trying again the next time.
Our second issue was my husband's understanding of bids for connection. Your words about an emotional bank really opened up his eyes and he started to understand my bids for connection and make his own which was really missing from our life before. Now when I'm feeling really low, I tell him, 'my bank is moving towards deficit' and he right away understands what I need. He really took the concept of emotional intelligence to heart and wants to learn about it.
Your mentorship and articulate words really helped him and I see each other properly and accept certain things that we didn't understand before. I can honestly say we are 100 times better now than we were. Especially me, I would spend days crying and feeling resentful and helpless (which is very out of character for me because i'm a very positive person) but alhamdulillah wit your help our relationship is really growing and we're finding joy in the little things and in being together"
– F & W
"My relationship with my adult child was at an all time low when I reached out to you. Thank you Marzia for the compassion and support you showed me throughout this time. You have the gift of understanding and despite my ramblings on, helped me get straight to the core issue and focus on what I could do instead of being stuck in the blame game"
– M & A
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